Why Magic doesn't mean you can be a douche.

Thursday Daily Work: Gods today sucked as far as magic goes. At night, Lesser Banishing Ritual of the Pentagram with an Inner Smile meditation for 30 minutes

Friday: Life throws a curve ( the next blog), Daily Practice Routine at Lunch ( 30 mintutes Clyman Gigong).

I get so many clients of late, and no this isn't meant as representative for anyone who is reading this. So many people just don't get magic or how magic works in the world. There is this idea out there, that magic works instantaneously with manifestation beyond belief. Magic works on probabilities, not sureties nor does it work like science. Rarely does Oxygen + Hydrogen produce water with magic, but if your at the right place at the right time you might get a lot more then you asked for, sometimes you get less. It depends. Magic is the study of events that are less probable. Science is the study of highly probable events. Magic and Science are compatible, but the idea of entitlement is not.

Today, I had to meet the biggest douche of a client. I mean it. After today I am going to create a servitor to screen clients. This client worked at Kroger in a wealthy area and seriously wanted the woman at Kroger to basically ask him out. These are wealthy, good looking young professionals. Of course, for 90 minutes, that I will never get back, I tried to answer his questions ( My PR manager wont let me do this again, it will be strictly by appointment for consults and questions count toward your time). He is a store clerk who is afraid of rejection and add to that he cannot spend that much time talking to the woman because his supervisor will get on his ass. Basically, the magic is supposed to be so bad ass, that these young professional woman will throw their phone numbers at him, the store clerk. I am like would you like them to drop their clothes right in Kroger too, and get naked there, throwing you up against the bread.

Lets define douche in SLANG terms: an excessively self-obsessed person, usually male.
From http://onlineslangdictionary.com/definition+of/douche+bag

For 90 minutes, I basically asked him WHY would these woman be that interested in you? This wasn't being condensing, but really to pick up woman in that situation, you better have something going on. Ok, you better have a lot going on. That inner game better be steller, and it would be highly doubtful that anyone with that much inner game, confidence, and sheer bravado would be working at Kroger regardless of what they had said. This client wanted a powder, to basically make them really get into him and ask him for his number, because hes not allowed to ask for numbers at work.

I tried to tell him, the magic will help him with that, but its still a lot on him to match his internal state with the external hoodoo powder. I told him, listen if you want the woman who are like that, go to cafes,bars, and social events in that area. Dress the part. Raise the illusion are you are still in the same status. Don't ask for their number, demand it with a smile with saavy sass. To quote the seduction people, if his inner game does not match the spell work, game over. The mismatching of combinations is actually in my humble opinion worse then doing nothing. It leaves the woman with a mixed message one coming from the natural reaction and one coming from psychic means. This confusion rightfully leads woman and man to slam the door and say no. We do not like mixed signals as a species. This is something most magicians and sorcerers would agree with in practice and has been a relatively more and more sticking point for the explanations. Really, if your not getting the results you are looking for with man or woman, spells can help, but its got to be backed up by a change in attitude at the subconsous level. PERIOD.

Since I started working with Babylon, and Erzulie Freya, and a few others. Men come out of the word work asking for this sort of stuff.

The idea that Magic can overcome your own weaknesses is absolutely the beauty of magic. The idea that a $75 dollar powder, or a single spell can overcome deep internal weaknesses without any internal change, is an idea that the lay person would like to believe about magic and they repeatedly make that point clear when you talk to people. Its also complete bullshit, they wont believe you regardless of how many times you tell them that, and will find someone else who will tell them what they want to hear. Miracles are possible, but they take work.

Sure I can do hours and hours of magical work on a person and get tremendous results, but they have to be willing to let the internal changes happen. In these cases, I can talk and talk and talk about how its not love, but I seem to be in the minority of males who actually have some framework for love that does not include force, mental control or domination. Guess there is a reason I work with Erzulie Freya so much. Oh and just because I have a framework for love, do not think that I am a nice guy, weak, or put people on pedestals. I have walked away from models and told them bluntly, they didn't have enough to offer me that was interesting enough to me ( Becky you are interesting,love, sappy addition just for her) .

For most guys, asking for woman to fall over them, or getting back a woman who left them, or anything dealing with woman is actually far more about the desire to control then even getting more love or even sex. Really, its about domination, its about beating your chest and then at the same time projecting weakness. You can have someone do the magic for you, but you cant outsource the attitude and personal power to go with it. The reason Casanova was so successful, was he truly loved woman, just didn't put them on a pedestal, and did love lots of them while expecting the woman to love him back ( not asking, expecting). After all, we should all be able to lift a wand and go Levi LeviooooSA... but magic doesn't work that way in the real world ( although it can, which is part of the problem, but when it works that way it is from truly talented individuals that have in fact crossed every T and dotted every I in the physical world as well ).

This is a conversation I seem to be having with lots of people. So much so, that I will be quoting a lot more for all spellwork like above 1000 dollars, because it always involves extensive counselling and results are more important then quantity to me. Id rather see quality transformations then do tons of spellwork. That means I am going to be increasingly choosy about who I will work with. I generally, within 20 minutes, know very well who will work with the spellwork and who works against it.

I am good at what I do. I get results, but the events have to have some chance of happening. I have specialties though that I am better at. I could sacrifice multiple animals to the LWA for something to happen, or set up the biggest spellwork. The minute that a client believes that the inner game is not important, or that they want exact and ridiculous claims of the magic to work and how is stoping how magic flows. Simply put, if you go to a magician, Mambo, Houngan or other priest, and don't do what they tell them, argue with them about the life changes needed to support the magic, you are working directly against the person doing the magic. This is the same as going to a car mechanic, and continuously putting sugar into your gas take, between visits to the mechanic and then screaming at the mechanic that the engine keeps breaking and that they did not fix the problem the right way. Same sort of thing.

Magic even for clients, myself, and others in my opinion, works on a combination of factors.
First, even with an external agent casting magic, makes works to transform the internal structures and bring the external in line with that transformation. In general, getting one with the other is always a lot more difficult and does in fact require a lot more effort. Spellwork changes probabilities not certainties. If you do a spell, and do nothing different in the physical world, do not change your attitude, do not do the physical works, basically expect heaven to deliver it to your door with no physical work, in most cases ( but not all), nothing will happen. Argue you at as it will, but if what you are doing isnt working, then yes... in a lot of situations it is you. You can change you, but most people will not. This is why their magic fails. Its effectively, putting sugar in their own gas tank instead of using the momentum of magical work to propel them forward.

As a magician, sorcerer and priest, this leaves me in a difficult situation. I want to get results. I know I can get physical results. Often, I have almost gone so far as to say for this type of spellwork to work, this magic to work at all, I'd have to bind you the client to keep you from working against me. Literally, this is the same situation we face when we are doing self-magic ( where we have to get the internal game going to be able to get the magic to flow). Flow... is a good way to put magic... Flow of probabilities, not rocks. A Male who goes through and internalizes a lot of the seduction material, and then casts a spell to find the right people, is combining skills, real world events, with the magic. Sure they might be able to pick up whoever they want, but I bet they would find the right one after a few months. They have the skills to capitalize on the opportunity magic brought. This combination is VERY illustrative for this case I am ranting on, but in general, magic always works better when this interplay and understanding is had.

Back to the Kroger case. I told him I will give him the powder, but I would be unwilling to do direct spell work for him. Because, a he wont pay me what I am worth, see I want over 1K for what is asking for and more importantly B) He wont do the self work to back up the spell work.

Someone else will take the money though on the internet, I am sure, or even in town, but I don't want the money. I want successes that generate more clients who are willing and ready to a miracle based on their own personal work.

Now some of you might be curious, what I am going to do about the powder. Because it is humorous and fun, I will tell you.

Babylon loves men a lot. She loves weak men as prey, willful men as the lover-beast that mutual fuels each other and builds bonds of esctacy and pleasure that frees the self in the dissolution of pure bliss. Sometimes the worst thing you can get is what you asked for. I'll make the powder and fully bless it with Babylon energies so woman will come and lust after him, engage in passion, and break his whole reality in so many pieces that he doesn't know whats up ( this is what he asked for), or he will have a revelation that will transform his life. Either way, it should be a great ride, pun intended.